This is an advice to the young ladies out there.Dating a married man is not only an obvious wast of time,but also it’s dishonest and stupid.so why do so many women do it? Some feel it is better than dating no one and others say it is better than getting broken heart from those young boys out there,and others find it fun and exciting hanging out with them hopeing that one day the man will leave his wife for her.These women suffer from low self esteem,and they also settle for a little.When you date a married man,you basically spend your whole life waiting for hm to get divorce.The deadline keeps changing from Thanksgiving to Christmas and Easter.You wait and you sit by your phone on the off chance that his wife took the kids to her parents house and he can spend an hour or two with him.And you cry when he can’t see you on Valentine’s Day or on his Wedding anniversary or his wife’s birthday.You are always second.
We do not take what is not ours.If you have recently met married man that you mad about,then must practice self restraint.If he is very thing your ever wanted in a husband,be friends with him and hope he gets divorce.Untill then,you must say to your self that a single man like him exist somewhere out there for you.Then you must get busy ,go to church or the synagogue, join the gym,or do volunteer work at the hospital.Never sit around dreaming about him or you might end up acting on throughts.Dating a married man is very easy because you can fantasize about his future availability.But , at the risk of sounding preachy ,it bears repeating that you won’t be at peace if you date a married man.
Even if he leaves his wife,how do you know he will actually marry you? You are not someone who wait and hopes while he take his wife and kids to Disney World.You have a life of your own.Lest you think we are being naive ,we know that extramarital affairs happen all the time and that married man do that at times divorce his wife and marry that girl they have been seeing an the side.please my ladies out there never wast your time waiting for a married man to get divorce.it is better to say single than to date a married man